Nowadays, parents and
children are both getting stressed over homework. It is not just a child’s responsibility;
it becomes the responsibility of the parent. For most children in primary
grades, homework is limited to reading and writing. For those in grade 4 and
over, homework increases quite quickly and can become overwhelming. This can
create a strain between the parent and child. Children shouldn’t be spending
hours on homework. Getting out and playing with friends after school develops
communication skills and ensures they are fresh for school the next day.
It is a natural reaction
to want to help your child complete their homework; it’s hard to see them
struggle. Parents should refrain from completing their homework and rather
assist with it. Praise and encourage your child to boost their confidence. If you find your child getting distracted
quickly, set aside a time each day that is going to be for homework. Make sure
all technology is turned off. If your child is struggling and it’s becoming a
daily battle to get homework done, it may be time to consider getting an after
school tutor. Tutors can be a great asset to your family and reduce the
friction between you and your child.
Children have more
pressure than ever before. Most families are scheduled with many after school
activities limiting the amount of time they can spend on homework. There are so
many more expectations put on our children. We want them to be the best they
can be. Spending too much time
struggling on homework isn’t good for their health. It makes them nervous,
anxious and lacking confidence. Sometimes we find them just shutting down.
Scheduling a tutor once or twice per week can alleviate some of this stress.
Children can work with a tutor on issues they are struggling with at school.